Can my relationship with H survive infidelity? I'd like to think it can. Just as I've worked on my 180s these past 2yrs, so has H. Today our relationship is very very different from what it was before BD.
Although we didn't do it together, we started working on piecing long before he told me he wanted to recommit. I am so proud of the man he has become and he has risen from all of this. I knew he could do it even in the beginning right after i discovered the affair. I think I doubted my patience but I was determined throughout the journey to continue to detach and work on myself. Most importantly to allow my higher power to lead the way and take a back seat.
I plan to journal our trials and tribulations and hope that you will all support me as you have in the past.
Those who are just beginning, stay strong and find a support system that will remind you of your goals. Those who have been in the process, continue to rediscover yourself and when you find yourself obsessing about your WAS or your sitch, turn the focus back on yourself!
Many hugs to you all!!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
