Hi ODGA!
Thanks for replying. Yes, regarding the D ..it is my W that says she wants it in which case I will let her do the work past what I find out from my attorney. I'm not going to have any D Papers drawn up to sign. I wil share the information, but definately tell her that if she wants this she'll have to do it...I don't want any regrets. It'll be interesting to see if she'll actually follow through. Either way I have nothing to loose, I still prefer her , but don't neeed her. I miss her, but I'll be fine either way...it'll just take time.

I will also start my own thread. It'll be cool to see the responses..thanks so much for letting me get started on yours!