own a buz - pt 12 ... taking him off the pedestal

[MrBond]

Sigh, you're doing it again. You ask questions, we answer and you argue against what I said.

"All of my calls are call forwarded to him, his phone has VM. Therefore, we are not missing any client calls."

I didn't say you were missing client calls. All I meant was that if he's calling during work hours, then you should take care of business.

"Secondly, I have no clue what he was calling about either, and according to him... he can't remember either. It was him who said "calls". Yes, plural. As I have missed his calls, just like he has missed mine."

That's just semantics. Was it more than one call or not? I didn't know HE was the one who said "call"s. You just wrote calls and didn't clarify if it was actually one call or one hundred.

"Thirdly, its an assumption for him to say that I am "avoiding" his calls. How does he "know"?"

He doesn't "know". It's just semantics. The truth was that you WERE avoiding his calls.

"He is just so used to me being attached to my phone and him 24/7 that he expects me to answer. Aren't I supposed to answer some, miss some, delay some... not be so predictable? Thought that was DB'ing?"

Yes but at the start of this WHOLE conversation, you didn't say that you were trying to DB and avoiding his calls on purpose.

"I feel much better not being "on demand", as I am so used to being for him. This way, I decide if I will take the call or not. On my terms. Not controlled by him.... hope this makes sense."

Yes it does when you actually clarify what you did.

"Bond, I don't recall stating he was making assumptions of what I was doing or with whom..."

HE wasn't the one making assumptions. YOU were the one who was assuming that he assumed you were doing something with someone. That's why your original response that you asked for clarification from us was this..."I would prefer that you ask me questions of your concerns before making a judgement. its not right or fair that u think i am doing something I am not. dont assume, dont believe rumours, and dont mind read. If you want to know something, please just ask.

I am adding in about rumours as he believes I am "dating"... or being chatted up by someone. He is convinced from a rumour he heard. Wrapping it all up in one. "

"When my phone rang, I was out with friends. GAL. I saw it was him (call display). Thought, hmmph. I will call him later. Put the phone in my purse and continued GAL. I didn't second guess it..... is that playing games? Really?"

AGAIN you didn't clarify that to us here.

Okay, I'm exhausted from the going back and forth with you. I'm done. Have a good weekend.