Thank you I really needed this I'm taking baby steps to letting him go; its still hard but I have to do it. I'm so tired of crying I so wish I could just stop. It will be a good night my two boys and I are going to our small town festival tonight and watch the fireworks. I'm looking forward to spending the evening with them. I just got an offer to switch to another dept at my work place I may just take up the offer it will be a lot better for me its going to be all morning shifts Monday to friday no evenings and no weekends. The only problem is when they start school I don't know what I'm going to do about them getting on the school bus. Maybe I could see if H would get our boys ready for school. That is only if he is still around. My 13 year old will be OK to get himself ready its just my 8 yr old is the one that I will worry about.
That's great news about your job and I would take them up on it Over here we have breakfast clubs where you can take your kids into school early and after school clubs. Maybe it's worth investigating or do you have a friend nearby that could help you with this? Your H should be able to help as well, my H still helps out with my son when I need him to. Can your 13 year old help with your 8 year old? Have you got summer holidays at the mo? Maybe you can start getting your 13 year old to take more responsibility for your 8 year old? My motto is do what you need to do and the rest will fall into place You can problem solve this later Have fun at the festival tonight
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Over here we have breakfast clubs where you can take your kids into school early and after school clubs. Maybe it's worth investigating or do you have a friend nearby that could help you with this? Your H should be able to help as well, my H still helps out with my son when I need him to.
