Good morning RDJ - Thanis for visiting my thread - I think it is good that you can now have plesant talks w/ your W even if it is about the D. I wonder though, that if you do not want the D, WHY are you the one to see the Attorney and get it started? JMTCW but if you do not want the D then let your W know that while you acknowledge that there are many problems w/ the R (problems that can be discussed and worked on later- not now) you still feel that D is not the answer. If W wants to Seperate and regroup so to speak then ok - but if she feels that the D is the only way then let her do the D. Several others on the Board have made that mistake and are still regretting it.
Also I feel that you have many interesting points to your sit that I might not be really able to respond to. I have noticed that you do not seem to have a thread of your own but rather just post a little here and a little there. I think that you will get many more responses to your Sit if you post all of what you put here on a thread of your own, maybe in newcomers.
just open the newcomers forum and hit the POST tab, pick your thread title and then post. You will get lots of really grerat replys.
Of course having a thread of your own does not prevent you from reading and replying to our threads with your advice and support.
You have a great weekend and keep DBing. No R talks for now, just make every convo and contact w/ W very plesant and just be the YOU that she fell in love with.
