Hi UW ~ thank you for your insight with your H, the OW, and how things went with their A. At least he's good for something lol!!
Haha, true dat!
I feel like my H, on some level, realizes OW is not the answer. And I worry about him feeling just as your xh did - that he's in too deep, so he just keeps going. I also fear his thinks I won't be able to forgive him, so he'll just keep going. And I constantly wonder... Does he really think I don't know ?!?!?
Ok, you are - say it with me now - getting ahead of yourself. Stop it girl! LOL!
I believe that they can only go so far with the ow, T. They know that it is not helping and they just have to get to a place where they end it. When my xh said he kept going, he also said that he knew it was going to end. He wasnt ready for that until he was. He knows you know on some level, T, but pushes it down iin his mind. Too much for him to handle.
I should have had you drive here while H is away - you could have helped with the sleepover lol!!! And pick me up when I start boo hooing. And talk me into ice cream to cheer me up. Sounds like a good plan to me!
I would have loved to have come. T, it really is on my bucket list that we meet. I know we will one day. And yea, ice cream is a given.
I hope and pray that these days at the beach will be a eye opener for him. But there's always the reality that this trip could rejuvenate their R, bringing them closer, delaying the end of the A.
Um, T, you do know what I am going to say here, right? . How could it rejuvenate their R, T. I mean really? She being her, him scratching on a beach in an MLC. Come on, T, this is a recipe for disaster.
Not much I can do about it one way or another.
Yep, so it's best to keep the getting ahead of yourself stuff on hold.
I think we are both pretty tough ladies, weathering a storm that continually beats upon us emotionally.
Yes, you both are, of that there is no doubt.
It WILL be worth it in the end, rH. I know it
I most certainly will be. No doubt about that either.
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It will be interesting to see how he feels by the end of his little trip. I always think day one of a vacation is much different than the last day. At some point, no matter how great the vacation, home is missed. Will that be true for H?
Of course it will be, T. I know this is difficult, try really hard not to let yourself go down the negative thinking road. It doesnt serve you well and doesnt accomplish anything.
Enjoy your day with everyone. Leave him to his journey. Trust me, this trip is not going at all how you are thinking it is.
. How could it rejuvenate their R, T. I mean really? She being her, him scratching on a beach in an MLC. Come on, T, this is a recipe for disaster. 
