Just wanted to pass along a book that helped me a lot. It talks a lot about what the WAS is going through. It has some of the same principles of DB, but for me it was a lot more encouraging to read.

It's called "Crumbling Commitment" by Lee Horton. I got my copy at BN.com. It's worth the price.

Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...