Less frequent is good. It has to start somewhere right?
Not wanting to have sex with somebody you feel nothing about is silly??? No, it's counter to what everyone says about men in our culture. What it says about women in our culture and what it says about the idea of casual sex. But we're not really wired that way. Most people I know don't enjoy casual sex. In fact, many seem to use it as a way to get beyond the attraction and gain a relationship (that rarely works from what I've seen). I think sex without that connection is backwards from how we're made - sex should come after the relationship as an added bonus
So don't beat yourself up about that.
And you seem to be telling the future these days. Very nice to hear you're a fortune teller now and have a new income stream
Rethink the stuff around your mom. I think it's a great idea. I lost my mom to cancer years ago Tad. We had a great relationship and I'm glad for it. I think she was too.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
