If patience is the mantra and time is a gift aren't we all waiting to some degree. We are just trying to wait in a healthy productive way? Otherwise, we let the marriage go.
Yes this is somewhat true, however I think for almost everyone posting on DB, their marriages are over when they get the bomb drop.
The only real question is how and in what way it is going to be rebuilt.
So we get ourselves to a healthy stage, so we can decide what that means.
