What? He's still living at home and with an OW? No wonder you're depressed, you poor thing I know it's hard, but he really needs to find his own place or move in with the OW. If this is not possible to do, then you will have to do a 180 like never before! Playing with your sons when he gets home, Don't be available for him make sure that you're in your bedroom doing stuff and don't greet him at the door, let him get his own supper, don't follow him around the place or share any time with him. You need to distance yourself from him asap, if you don't your health will suffer. Trust me, this is the best way to get your H back. If you can show your H that you can be a better woman than this OW, then he will probably come back to you. It's only a temporary blip, believe me the grass is not greener on the other side. At the moment he's only seeing the good side of her, he doesn't see her first thing in the morning without her makeup on or her hair all over the place, he doesn't see her house a mess, etc. Believe me when I tell you this, it's a lot easier to get them back when they're with an OW as he will soon get fed up with her The things I've been 180ing so far are always looking my best clothes wise, making sure the house is clean and tidy (a work in progress!), apending more time with my son, spending more time with my friends, going out more and having my friends over more. Hope this helps Keep your chin up and if ever you feel the need to talk then I'm here most days BTW, are you in the US? If you are the laws may be different over there when it comes to D, having a word with your lawyer is a good idea
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
