I feel ya. The best thing you can do is GAL. Let ur W figure it out. Trust me I'm no expert except doing everything wrong smile good luck and just make yourself happy.

Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB