Well I had to have the last word. Thanks everyone for the support, but my voyage to save my marriage had ended up on Gillian's island shop wrecked.
I used to think me being so prompt with responses and calling showed love not obsession. I asked you those questions to help me understand why a woman would leave a "faithful" husband and a nice home for a room in her moms for a man who has nothing. No career or motivation to do anything other than party and rent a uhaul. If that's being obsessed bc I want to understand your logic then hey guess ill be that. I was willing to be diplomatic about starting a family but you ran. You never gave me a chance to finish my thoughts. oh in regards to the aunt Karen thing I was stepping up to back you up but you let people put things in your head and think I'm such a bad guy. No I was a good man to a lying cheating wife for the second time but ill take this divorce on the chin. You don't have to respond idc good luck you'll need it.
Best of luck to everyone out there and thanks again for all the great advice!
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB