I will tell her, W I understand you can't live in a loveless house. You deserve your happiness. If your decision is to end this then nothing I can do, you are free to make your choices and decision.
As far as the house, I disagree on the refinancing that you propose. We need to sell the house and split the equity. There is no sense to have things together because there is no us. It is your call what you do with your share. Lets be reasonable and take custody of the kids 50/50.
I wish you the best and happiness.
This would be my points in discussing this w her when I get home.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
