Ok here's the latest. I just got a letter from the W. she wants to end things I can't stop her it's best that she files. It still hurt but not much.
She wants to refi the house so she can buy a cheap house so I can stay there...ummm wouldn't that make my mortgage higher!
Anyway, the solution is sell the house and split the equity. If she can't be in the M 100% there is no M.
I'm still at work busting my tail and I get this letter. I'm here and will do to make the M work but by no means will take her fogged up logic. She needs to wake up, just hope that I'm still there when she does.
Just venting. Your thoughts are welcome.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.