"Did I do wrong by standing up for myself, telling him sending his side work checks to EA's was the last straw for me, I'm standing for me now. That's what I have been doing for myself all this time, trying to find me again"

oh Dawn I'm sorry. I didn't know your H was sending his side work checks to the Alkie. And in despair because he found her boyfriend back over there with her. That's just wrong. I thought he had just woken up to her character and decided to break ties with her. sorry I should have read your post more carefully.

I'm glad you found the strength to be the one who lets him go with love. You are NOT wrong. Sometimes we get need to step off the MLC gerbil wheel and let our head stop spinning. This is what's right for you to do now, for your family and for yourself. Hang in there my poor Dawn. Are your kids home now? What do they think?


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17