Thank you I didn't know I can delay the D that long when I go see the lawyer next weekall ask about that. No my H didn't tell me anything about what I can work on he just said that our love life is gone and we haven't communicated with each other for a long time. And anyway he already had moved on with The OW but he stills come home after spending all day and night with her.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013