Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
...I saw the tinybuddha site show up. I've been through that site before and it can certainly give you some great thoughts and ideas.


Thanks for the website pointer. There are certainly a lot of good stuff there to think about. I can see how attached i am to my situation.

I wonder if continuing to live under the same roof as the one that has rejected me is good for anyone. I thought it would be good for all of us, and perhaps it can be, but detaching is going to be the key.


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014