Well, I am confused. As DB'ers we have been advised to provide some mystery to our WAS. To not be so "available/needy/clingy".... this is what I am doing. Picking and chosing to not answer all text/calls, etc. (You have even advised me Bond, not to reply to certain texts... you said unnecessary...???)
I am not playing games, but my personal time is mine, to chose if I can get the call, or take it later (most people do this for most calls). I am one who usually accepts ALL calls. NOT anymore!
When I returned his call an hour or so later last night, he couldn't recall what he was calling me for anyway. Said whatever it was can wait till the morning (business hours). I said back that if he recalled he could call me back, if he wanted.
Why do I have to defend myself to him for missing a call?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
