Take it to the limit

[reachingHigher]

The OW/OM are extremely flawed individuals. They have many issues as well. Some identical to the ML'er which helps create the "connection" so many Ml'ers claim they are missing with their LBS. Ml'ers choose someone who is safe. They choose someone who will not outshine them or pose a threat. The OW/OM is usually a very insecure, fragile individual who needs to be taken care of in some way, shape or form. In many cases, the ML'er tries to create in the OW/OM a version of their LBS. Some encourage them to dress and act like the LBS. They will often take them to the same places as they did the LBS. Being of weak character and integrity, the OW/OM allows this and goes along for the ride. Many are in it for the financial and social status benefits that the ML'er brings to the table. The ML'er is usually not looking at finding someone better than their LBS. They want to find someone that they can feel superior to which will help nurture their bruised egos.

Hey Tvs,

What a weekend for us, huh?

I read the above today on MLC signs and thought about you. And your H wanting the OW to dress like you. And that your H is so good-looking that it brings her status up (in her mind only). And all the rest.

I'm so sorry.

I think I could handle the alcohol more than a specific OW. I remember my H saying he wasn't interested in any one woman, but all women. And now he is in N.O. He will see some things down there and he won't always know what he is looking at. Lol!

Did your H bring lotion? It makes me angry at this OW and I don't even know her. I hope that's okay to say here. I try not to think about her b/c it makes me mad at her.

The sleepover for S5 will be so fun!
And yoga will be good for you.

So glad there are some good activities for you this weekend.
I can't wait for this whole nightmare to be over.
Really over.

And for the "and for the next 30 years of their M he adored her and was sorry for his behavior" part!!!

Stay strong, keep posting!

rH