Just reading bwriter's comments brings a question for you.
If you could offer insight on how you were able to really grab hold of the concept of befriending, that would be helpful. And maybe OGDA could offer some help, too.
I find that men more than women really struggle with this. Sometimes H's tell me that if they just focus on the friendship, they are afraid their W's will interpret that as they (the H's) have accepted the walking away, it may give the W permission/freedom to seek an OM.
So gentlemen, please offer your wisdom.
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