Divorce is very difficult, not only because you are splitting up as a "couple", but all of the financial stuff that goes along w/it. It becomes such a business ordeal because you are calling it quits and need to settle up, per se.
My advice is that in the future, listen to your gut. Your gut won't steer you wrong. It sounds like the lawyer you have now is pretty much on the ball.
I can understand why you are stressed with the finances...it's a lot to take in and a lot of money involved. I do hope that you can find some time to unwind this weekend. You need to catch your breath a bit. I'm worried about you. You know how to contact me if you need to talk off line.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
