"I know I will be fine without him. My life will just be different. I am no longer stuck on all the plans that we made that I was looking forward to and that were finally on their way to becoming a reality. The most ironic thing about MLC, I think, is that we finally got to an age where we had good vacation time, were financially stable and could enjoy what we had worked for. And he decided to throw it away - throw me away."
That IS the hardest and most ironic thing about MLC, Portia. I agree. When you've been with someone almost 20 years, as you have, you feel that you have really gotten to know them. You know how they will react, and trust that they love you. That they will continue to love you thru thick and thin. You feel settled, content. You finally have enough money and time to have some fun together. And he goes crazy and throws it all away! So heartbreaking.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
