Wow Dawn, on my thread we were discussing "done". I expect that is what it looks like - that we no longer care what happens to our partners - good or bad.
Nero asked some good questions though, now that you have literally handed him his shoes, do you plan to take any legal action?
Nero, I am with you. I wish I could be a better person and wish him happiness. But I don't. At least not right away. He has affected me enormously and I sure hope that he at least feels some of my pain - or maybe more than some!