Sorry you're here but it's one of the best places to be at this time in your life.

I know you must be hurting. It will get better.

Were you as a family planning to continue to live on the rez until you retire? If the 26 year old was a student, it seems you've been there for awhile. Yes?

The cold hard facts are, he's going to do what he's going to do. You only have control of you.

His stomach problems are his problems but I would wait a while before you decide what you want to do in terms of living situation. As long as you and D have a place to live, you're fine.

Shout out from So AZ! Hope you're summering somewhere cooler.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss