I live in the desert and I still see kids dressed like this all year round. I think it's not as prevalent as it once was but it's still one of the "uniforms."

You and I are battling similar things except my S is older, at least chronologically. Hmmm I said battling up there but I'm not really battling anymore, I'm accepting. This is where I am, this is where he is, these are my boundaries. We even have it in writing. Trying to control our kids is just like trying to control anyone else, it just doesn't work. They have to at some point face the life they're choosing.

My thoughts are with you. ((( )))


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss