I agree. Your strength is amazing, maybe he can play so much lacrosse he will be too exhausted lol!
Perhaps buy more lacrosse balls and throw them all over the yard so he can at least get a workout in during his nocturnal activities...;)
I am glad he opened a bit to drug counsellor..and the fact that he said it was okay to tell you is, I think, a huge step. Sometimes it is hard to discuss things with the people we love. I don't think S telling H how he feels is going to happen any time soon though, simply because of the dynamic through your stories.
