GM, You've been through the wringer of emotions over the last year, but more so in the last couple of months. You will recover, but you will not be the same person that you were when you entered the crisis.
Your h appears not to be a happy man w/his new found life and continues to try to beat you down at every turn w/the demands of selling the home. He doesn't care where you live or how much you have to pay to keep a roof over your head because all he wants is the money to do whatever with. As for joint custody, I can understand him possibly filing for that, but it's very sad that he doesn't want his children to remain in the home that they've grown up in for a while longer.
I know you are discouraged at the moment, but please try to look forward and hopefully this situation will come to a head sooner rather than later. I do know how you feel because had he worked w/you on these issues instead of walking out the door and dropping everything in your lap, just maybe things would have gone smoother. They do tend to make mountains out of mole hills all of the time and when we think we've got it right, they through another wrench in the mix and wonder why nothing can get done.
GM, please try to get some rest over the weekend. You are tired and discouraged a the moment. I am hoping that things will get better very soon.
BTW, it's time to start a new thread. Have you got a title in mind?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
