yes I think there is hope in your sitch. She seems to be reaching out and has not filed.
Do not fuel the negative images she had of you. Counter them with positives that are the opposite so she can believe you have changed for real...in a lasting way.
She clearly misses the laughing and the friendship. But the "in love" part will come by seeing you as confident and strong and capable.
Didn't she even SAY she wanted to be able to be the one taken care of?
...that's a red flag for someone who is doing too much of the managing and getting too little noursishment and attention.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016