Wearing the ring has nothing to do with your W. It is s reflection of YOU and your personal beliefs/morals/standards. Figure out who YOU are, then make your decision and stick to who you are.
I struggled with the very same question you are asking until I learned the lesson above.
All the best.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.