Update: W didn't reply to emails about my asking to "review the parental plan". She did though ask me all the bank statements of all my accounts, which I provided, along with the assets I had at the date of petition and date of marriage. And asked hers back. No reply yet.
Anyway, Monday, my lawyer has written to hers saying we want to resume discussions, they have two weeks to answer yes, or we got to pre-trial.
In preparation for that, I've asked testimony letters from people in France who have seen me play with the baby, and I would be a good father and they noticed she didn't make any friends. My overnights with my S went super well, I don't know what else a judge needs to see to grant me 50% time with my S. Anyone has a clue? I'm doing this for Brucie, he deserves a dad who loves him deeply.
And oh, I bought a house, will move in after July when I come back from holidays in France. -> This proves I'm serious about my son. If she was hoping I was going to get tired and go back, she's wrong, I'm here to stay.
One last thing : If she were to come back, I'd take her, but it's been a year and a half that I have not had physical contact with her, and I prevent any other "thing" to happen by wearing my wedding band faithfully. But lately, I'm starting to have my doubts. Maybe I'm ready to take the ring off. She's not acting as my wife, why do I commit to a dream? Am I chasing wind and hoping in vain? Maybe I'm foolishly burning the opportunities, and I should accept to meet new people. I don't know, a christian lady, who wouldn't let go on the first whim, someome who wouldn't betray a heart that's true.
Strange emotions going on inside, it's new to me, don't know what to do with those sentiments. Don't know what to think. If W doesn't want my care and attention, maybe I should give it to someone else who will accept it?
Open for commentaries... I can take that, please tell me what's what truthfully. Thanks.
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012