I also think you made the right choice (hug). Glad you felt at peace with your decision. I just noticed something that your post kind of sparked in my mind. When my wife goes out of town, she's called everyday to check in. I was always prepared to NOT here from her thou. So I wouldn't read to much into it either way. Keep yourself busy, and the time will fly by faster.
My wife will be on "trips" for 10 of the next 14 days. Hell wheres this party at, and how come we weren't all invited?
PMA is always hardest for me in the evenings, im tired from work, come home now and clean, make dinner, etc. So maybe all our spouses being out of town will give us a nice mental break from keeping up with the Jones'.