GRRRR...this is when the edit button would be kinda nice to have.

I posted:

As long as your H is in MLC fog, it may take many more months or even years before he notices you. This is the harsh, cold reality of living with a MLCer. I am not going to sugarcoat this process for you in a "womanly/wife light", sweetie.

What I meant to say was:

As long as your H is in MLC fog, it may take many more months or even years before he notices you in a "womanly/wife light.". This is the harsh, cold reality of living with a MLCer. I am not going to sugarcoat this process for you.