I think that her comment about not feeling love for you, yet asking you what the two of you should do, is telling.
Although I wonder if there is a cultural consideration there. Are you both "traditionalists" in your ideas of family, couples and marriage?
I notice that you mention going to MC so I suspect there is at least some modernized relationship thinking, at least on your part. I also notice your W mentioned you do not speak her LL. She could simply be using the LL as a reason things won't work.
Do you think there might be an affair going on? Would that be a deal breaker for you?
Hi KD, thanks for stopping by. I'm currently 30 and my W is 26.
I agree that her comment on feeling not love and asked what me what to do is telling. But stupid me want to always justify my actions. I recognized now that is wrong.
I would say that I'm the traditionalist in marriage here but my W is not.
As for having an A, I did have this thought at that point in the past, I would think it is a deal breaker. However, currently I'm not too sure.
Will be updating my situation up to speed when I get more time at work.
