Shoot PM, sorry to hear about the job. Sometimes having a whole bunch of existing cr*p makes some of the other cr*p somehow less cr*ppy, at least I've noticed that in my life. You gain perspective. I hope you find something great and soon.

I thought your letter would be best sent to you. It was stuff you needed to hear and do, even though it was in the guise of telling her she needed to back off. You don't get to say what she does or doesn't do. YOU need to back off. Doesn't hurt that you told her, as long as you were listening...

Take care.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.