7 months pregnant ... Facing separation

[lost_hope]

Thanks so much, Accuray. I am soooo confused on the whole moderation thing. I really, really really needed help over the weekend and it was so frustrating I actually wrote in asking them not to post my post and to disable my account. Obviously that didn't work.

Anyway, yes I am doing the pursuing/distancing dance. It is exhausting especially while pregnant. Why should a pregnant woman do any pursuing at all? And he does way more distancing than pursuing. Sometimes I feel as though if I GAL 100% without him and I never complain about his distance or show that I'm upset about it, he would a-ok with it. Anyway, I am doing your #2 suggestion. I would never do #1 until I was divorced which I am not ready for right now and #3 will drive me slowly insane. I am already going to insane doing #2 I just hope my son will help me to refocus my priorities.

Isn't there something similar to this like love temperature or something? I have to look into that. Thanks.