"just really miss being part of a team that is working toward a common goal, i.e. retiring, traveling the country, building a life together. Wondering if I will ever get my life back! "

That is what I miss the most too. A Friend saw my XH on a dating website yesterday. That didn't bother me a bit, which was wonderful for me, (it really made me realize how far I have come) but the plans we made that will never happen still hit me out of the blue.

Married 30 Together 34
Me 49 H 51
S 27, S 25, D 22
1st ILYBNILWY Feb. 2005
Renewed vows Aug. 2007
2nd, 3rd etc ILYBNILWY 2008-2011
Separated Sept 2011
Filed Jun 2012 Final Oct 2012