I've done small pursuing things along the way too. I don't think it has been a bad thing. When she is pushing a negative perception on you, I think it's good to validate like that. I think saying "I'll miss you," is much better than "sorry you feel that way," especially in a text, where that could come off as being insincere. You're doing amazingly well MM! Love your crapper metaphor
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17