I'm back, on my own.

[canadianMrs.]

One more question. My counsellor, while he understands from our history why I would want to keep away from H, he thinks I should try to continue this so called friendship. He thinks I'm one of two "stable" people in H's life. (The other his best friend who has a lot going on). I think it's a lot to ask. Sometimes I wonder if it is MLC or H is just to immature to understand what it takes to maintain a marriage.