The best organizations that I know which operate in Oz are Robbins or Klemmer. They aren't cheap, but they are very valuable resources. They both have online content and book / audio / video resources, as well.
Thanks Kaffe. Unfortunately, i am not in a financially carefree position. Fortunately, i don't mind learning about this stuff on my own. I think i will stick to trying to make it through the days without breaking down emotionally for a start. I have started taking St John's wort in the hope that it will help in this regard.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014