This morning when I noticed she was online I sent her an IM asking about the meeting. she responded that it was more of the same but when I asked what was her gut feeling she said she was on phone and would get back in a min. Well, she never got back and when I left my office around 4:30 I sent her a quick IM reminding her to have her bookkeepr do my payroll checks - I waited for a couple of minutes with no response so I signed off and went home.
About an hour after I got home she noticed me on the home computer and sent me an IM sad face. Seems she forgot to tell bookkeeper to do checks before she left. I said no biggie in that can try to do them tomorrow, or on Monday or Tuesday as my office payday is on the 25th. She responded with OK and that she had to take puppy out before a client came over and then she was going out with S(21) for dinner. I sent a and thought that that was it for IM today. Well, almost an hour later she sent me an IM that Client was gone and S was on the way. I asked her to tell him hi for me and asked if she got the sale (she did) and I told her that I knew that she would. Then told her that I had changed my business web page some and asked if she would look at it as I would like her input. she said OK - no more IM but one of my new goals was for her to start initiation a "just for contact" IM again.
Well, I believe that the last IM fit that discription.
Another point of encouragement is that she said she was going to take some money from savings and pay for weekly visits to a counselor. I will take that as a positive for now.