corerush we here on this thread have been where you are. We understand the hurt, fear and pain. I would listen to KML and get a lawyer. I would wait before making any moves to relocate. I'm sorry to be pragmatic about this but you will need a steady job and income if the divorce goes through. It can be costly. I wouldn't be thinking of getting new job right now. To me work was the only stable part of my life while I went through my stich so slow down a bit. 1.5 hrs away is not that far to see the kids for a little while until you get yourself together. heck I have been driving 90 miles each way to work for 10 years. you can do it also.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
