dont snoop and dont try to get her family on your side. There is no way you can go to that party and not "drop" hints or kiss their bums or ask lots of open ended questions.

Focus on you and create goals that you have 100% control over.

She needs space REMEMBER she needs to make the choice to come back to you............in order to do that she needs to find herself first

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13