My sitch has taken a turn. H has agreed to fully commit. He called OW, put her on speaker and told her to stop communicating with him because he is reconciling with me and wants to be with his family. OW fought back and H was stern with her. The sitch got worse but in the end I believed him. He doesn't want anything to do with her.
Congrats 2C, that's great news I'm so happy for you! You've really shown a lot of patience and perseverance and it is paying off! Have you considered RetroV? I think it would be a huge benefit to you now that your H is committed to rebuilding the M.
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I feel very guarded. We hug and kiss (peck) but that's as far as it goes. I'm not ready to ML.
I can understand that, but I would suggest talking to your H about it and coming up with some kind of plan for getting the romance and intimacy back into the M. For most men ML is a very important part of an R, and denying him that for too long may send him wandering again.
Again, great news, I look forward to reading your new thread in Piecing
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
So happy for you Vero!! Look forward to reading you on piecing!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
I'm so happy for you! You've really shown a lot of patience and perseverance and it is paying off! Have you considered RetroV? I think it would be a huge benefit to you now that your H is committed to rebuilding the M.