Below will give you an ideal of how communication goes with my wife. I know she has feelings for me.. more than she may be willing to admit. Before monday we had not communicated in over a week. Her texts seem to indicate that she misses me quite a bit. But, for some reason she just can’t seem to cross the line to even dating me again. BTW we are married but living separately. Here are my texts with her for this week
Monday Me (mid-morning): Saw gin blossoms on beach in Santa Cruz over weekend… reminded me of seeing Eddie Money with your dad. Hope your throat is getting better and you are taking care of you! … Or at least avoiding stemless wine glasses
Her (night time): Yes, lots of wonderful, memories we have!!! Was in the mountains with dad this weekend… Brought back memories of Tahoe trips. Talked about it all weekend. Hiked alone around cabin made me think of all our hiking trips.
Tuesday Me(mid-morning): Tahoe was always your happy place Kim. Hope your weekend trip had a similar effect on you. The full moon was amazing this past weekend. It must have been magical to see from deep inside the woods away from the city lights. Hope you don’t get too wet today in the rain.
Her (Night time): Had a wonderful weekend. Hope yours was just as wonderful. Goood night, Stephen
Wednesday afternoon Me: We got a tax refund! Red or Black? Quick!! Her: I don’t understand. (I thought for sure she would get it right away) Me: I’m at the roulette wheel.. Red or black or should we do green? Her: I’m laughing now… How much? Enough to plan Vegas trip to double our $$$ Me: xxxx fed xxxx state. But it’s all gone now. I went with green Her: you suck!!! Was looking forward to going to Vegas. Do we need to meet for signatures? Me: Maybe.. Waiting to hear back from Midge. Can still do Vegas.. As I recall I have some southwest credit Her: Yes, u have southwest credit!!! Let me know Me: I’ll let you know what Midge says, but Im ready to book Vegas right now. I’m feeling in the mood for an adventure, and you should come along for the ride! Her: I would love to but really can’t afford the trip Me (hour later): Get your black dress ready, give me some dates, trip is on me Kimberly
Her: No response yet …
My last response was an hour later, otherwise we were chatting back and forth with minutes between texts. Thoughts???
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
