During the fight, she told me that she no longer feel any love for me and asked me what we should do. In my anger, i questioned her why does she feel that way. I told her that i also feel that I feel that she does not care about me at all for the past few weeks. She also went on to say that whenever she ask me how does she look, I will just comment to her that "not bad" and "ok". I tried to justify my actions to her that I was just trying to give her my honest opinion of her dressing and not trying to undermine her. She flared up immediately after that saying that i'm implying that she is not beautiful in my eyes. The rest after that was history.
She dropped the bomb to me a few days later. I started crying, begging and pleading. Informing her that i've already made arrangement with a MC and asked her to come along to fix our problems. She initially rejected it and finally agreed to go with me.
During MC, she revealed that initially she was trying to tell me our relationship problems trying to fix it with me. However, she does not want to fix our relationship now. She further went to say that I do not speak her love language being words of affirmation and gifts.
She started giving examples that she even told me specifically that she wanted something but i would keep giving her excuses not to get it for her.
At the end of the session, i started pleading to her to gave me a chance to work on our marriage but i'm sure everyone knows where this is going.
