You will be scoring your own "test". Give yourself a daily tally.
Every time you have contact with your H and you feel "happy because he contacted you", score -1. If that contact makes you excited, score an additional -2.
If your H contacts you and you feel upset, score -5.
If your H contacts you and you have no emotional reaction one way or the other, score +1.
Score an additional +2 points if you question any positive or negative comments from your H.
Score +2 if you attend a GAL activity. Score an additional +3 if you do not think about your H during that GAL activity.
Score -10 every time you think about whether your M might be saved.
Originally Posted By: waitingformagic
another compliment from h last night, in reference to closing a deal,
You indicate the deal was no different than any other. If so, are you willing to question his motivation for complimenting you?
