I am having to sit on my hands to avoid emailing him. He is going to IC with the worst therapist I have ever met. I want to ask him to consider seeing someone else. After reading the "well meaning therapist" section in DR I just wanted to cry. I feel totally doomed if he keeps seeing her. She is divorced and has children and totally thinks kids are resilient and it's no big deal. She doesn't realize or care what's at stake here. Of course she's not going to encourage him to find happiness while staying married...that might be like admitting she messed up. She has told him to focus on himself and everything else will fall into place. It just sounds so passive and "I don't care" about the marriage. When he has already moved out of the house and filed for a divorce...I can tell you where his marriage is falling if he doesn't get his head out of his a$$ and realize what he's about to lose. If we don't start working on this marriage we are going to get divorced, period. It will be final in 5-11 months...he put an expiration date on us!
