I know I have to get over all of this resentment toward him, but it is hard!!!! I know he is not doing this to me on purpose, that he didn't choose for it to be this way, and it is hurting him to be hurting me. I know his head is in a fog right now. But I look at him and I always thought he would be there for me, no matter what. We had our 3 children together, and I never imagined for one second that he would walk away.
I can totally relate to this. I never in a million years imagined I would be in this position. And even though (sometimes) I think he's hurting too...I'm just so angry at him for turning my life upside down.