My H is about to become a WAH, and I am in shock. We are in the same house, in LIMBO... he is not sure whether he wants to separate or stay together. He looks so confused/distant/sad. How long can a couple stay in this limbo, of not knowing whether to separate or live together? Can this go on for years? Everyone has stated to give him all the space and time he needs.

If it weren't for this forum I would have already given him the 'ultimatum': tell me if you are staying or going! It is taking all of my strength right now not to do that!!!!

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.