I never initiate contact with her unless it's necessary because of the kids. I've gotten really good at no contact from me.
So you're against a plan to help you through difficult times?
No contact from her is going to be difficult, you've not done this before. You don't know how that will affect you, it may be positive, it may be negative. All I'm saying is you need a plan.
How are you going to contact her about the kids and what in your mind constitutes necessary?
If you want her to stop contacting you, stop responding unless it's truly necessary, life/death necessary.
Tell us why you think your letter or message is a good thing.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
